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[quote=Anonymous]Not a put down of working moms, I am one myself. Am taking a long period of PTO and am realizing just how much easier it is to be a present, happy and organized mom when I don’t have to balance work with family life.

For one, quality time is important but there is something magical about being there all day, especially with young kids. You get to be there for little moments throughout the day when they surprise you by making interesting observations, doing something unexpected or just saying something funny/sweet. I already spent at least 4 hours with them everyday while working (WFH, before work, lunch and after work) but the interactions that are most fulfilling tend to be in the middle of the day when everyone is the most relaxed and not trying to do anything or get anywhere.

It’s also just nicer because I am more present and energized when I’m with them. I go to bed earlier because I’m not staying up later to get some “me” time after they go to bed- I get some of that while they are taking naps/at activities. I wake up at 6am feeling energized instead of tired and am in a better mood. I am more patient with them all day because I am rested.

There’s also just more time for the various parent and life admin stuff and everything doesn’t feel like so much of a slog. I’ve had time to deal with insurance claims, meet up with friends that I haven’t seen in a year, organize and rotate their toys which has resulted in them playing in a more engaged way than I’ve ever seen, plan family vacations and even get ahead of the holiday rush.

It’s just been so easy and happy for the whole family. It’s made me feel like the downsides of SAH are constantly stressed on this board, but no one really admits how much better it can be for a lot of moms and families in many ways. I’m sure many super moms will say they can do all this and work, but it can be hard to maintain all that energy all day. Everyone only has so much to give. [/quote]

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