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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She’ll drop you as soon as she’s officially divorced. Happened to me just recently (I even posted a thread here about a partner who omitted telling he was finalizing his divorce). I heard men saying it happened to them, too. Which is why nobody wants to date separated people [/quote]

Forgot to add his divorce was bitter in court and he was not telling me any of that. He dropped me 3 weeks after it was final [/quote]

What's the psychology behind this, I don't understand?

I can understand BEING dumped when your divorce is made final by someone who is afraid of committment.[/quote]

The psychology behind it is very complex: he projected many things from what his exW did to me; he probably was just in the beginning of his dating spree, but represented it to me like he dated for couple years  and I didn’t want to be someone’s “post divorce trial”; he was also set in ways, super sensitive and inflexible. Many factors that I would have taken into consideration, before having second with him, if I had known where he was in that process. Maybe I wouldn’t be too pushy with things knowing his stage in life as well. [/quote]

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