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[quote=Anonymous]My MIL's biggest piece of advice to me during fights was "don't leave." Leaving the house for the afternoon - to take a drive, see a movie, just get away and cool off for a couple hours- is one thing, but if the leaving entails packing up and going for a few days, that's just setting the precedent of leaving. If you can leave when an argument gets too tough, you can leave when the marriage gets too tough. And it feels TERRIBLE to be the one left. I can't say it hasn't crossed my mind from time to time during bad fights to pack up my kid and jet off to my mom's or somewhere for a couple days. But I can never bring myself to do it. I just can't bring myself to make my husband sit there for a couple days wondering when and if I'm coming back. [/quote]
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