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[quote=Anonymous]OP.  Couple things:
Engineering takes a huge commitment.  Does not sound like your DC has this as a priority, no judgement there.  But it could really impact where he goes.  Consider of course schools that offer everything, not just engineering.  
Engineering is a very competitive major to be accepted into, also something to consider when planning.  
Falling for a dream school is a rookie mistake.  We get it and many of us have made that mistake as well.  Applicants have simply got to be open to more schools.  Have dreams of course, but mix in heavy doses of practicality, open mindedness, strategic thinking.  
I know so many kids who are very very happy at schools that were not even close to their top choice (great students, great people).  
No sneering allowed.  Parents can help with adjusting expectations and attitudes, encouraging kids to come up with game plans, and be less judgmental in a judgmental world.  
It seems now like high drama, I get it, but it’s not and it will be resolved in less than a year.  Or more if they end up transferring.  Happily too, if the approach is sound and maybe a bit more open.  My two cents.  Or 30 cents. [/quote]

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