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[quote=Anonymous]Unless you know her well, could be any infinite number of emotions and response. - guilt / shame / embarrassment - extreme sadness / loneliness / freight for the every day without her spouse or the fear of a future without her spouse - maybe the marriage was rocky, maybe she is feeling a tinge of relief, which could be coupled with more guilt / sadness - trouble sleeping, nightmares, daydreams, hearing voices, seeing images, smells, sounds of her spouse, memories in every corner of their house of his presence - funeral homes / florists / clergy / insurance / more insurance / even more insurance / lawyers / 100 housing documents / estates - imagine building a life with someone, with expectation to grow old together to then suddenly be living alone, planning the future without the partnership you planned - she is navigating in-laws, her own family, her work and his work colleagues, friends, neighbors, all of whom are contacting her asking questions and asking, ‘what can I do?’ with probably very few concrete offers to help or genuine help at all - are there kids? Multiply everything about x 1,000 [/quote]
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