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[quote=Anonymous]OP, its inevitable that they will treat you as they treat/ed him, which will make it difficult to have a healthy relationship with them, in this case. They seem codependent, manipulative and possibly abusive, as my ILs were - because that is how they treat DH - he is good with them when they want something. MiL was/is only interested in her favorite child’s child - because everything is about her, and she sees them as an extension of herself ie: codependency and narcissism. They are not your responsibility. If your ILs were warm, welcoming, inclusive - you would respond in kind. Do what you have to do for you and your kids. [/quote]
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