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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Complaining, I don't do housework or cook. My job pays the bills and I am tired when I am off work to do extra activities with the kids. She's pissed I haven't been to the swim club yet. She is threatening me that she will quit her part-time job because she doesn't want two jobs. [/quote]

OP these years with young kids are hard. Hard hard hard. Both spouses battle through a lot of fatigue and resentment. Although this is very normal I’m sorry you’re going through it.

These years are also fleeting. Once your kids hit the preteen years and are more self sufficient, you will both have more time for yourselves and this score keeping about who is working harder will fade. (Of course you’ll have other and bigger issues with your kids then but that’s another post.)

You just have to battle through these years realizing it does get much easier and you will be glad you did. Make the first gesture to your wife. Get someone to watch the kids tomorrow and go out and have some fun. It doesn’t have to be fancy- play golf, ride bikes, go out to eat, whatever. Try not talking about kids or work. Do it once and see what happens [/quote]

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