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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Anybody else have a husband who reacts very aggressively if you “contradict” him in public? Mine is throwing in my face two instances where I spoke while he was interacting with a service person. 1) barmaid was bringing him a drink; I mentioned she seemed to be in the middle of pulling drinks for others at that moment and she said nope she was okay getting his; this was “humiliating.” 2) leaving a performance he mentioned to the bartender he had to pay a bill from something he ordered at intermission. I was confused bc I hadn’t known he ordered anything so I asked what was going on & why he was stopping. This too was a “humiliation.” I was yelled at for it last night and now it’s the first thing he wanted to talk about this morning.[/quote]

1 is a weird interaction, but I would not describe it as humiliating for anyone other than the server, who had to witness this interaction between you. 2 sounds like he is concealing his drinking and being defensive about it.

Honestly, the biggest red flags here are "reacts very aggressively" "throwing in my face" and "yelled at for it." Are you a child, that your husband can terrorize you like that? [/quote]

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