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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree the looks are a red herring. I married someone I found really attractive but everyone ages, you know? Neither attractivenes nor the lack is the glue keeping us together now. It becomes less relevant.

It’s interesting that you are couching the whole thing around looks, though. Do you think you’d be happy with a lousy guy with a great face and body?  Do you feel on some level that your husband owes you, for marrying him despite his looks? [/quote]

I'm the PP from 14:35 and this post above is spot on, OP. Especially the last sentence.

This just further makes me think that you need to delve into this deeply with a therapist, OP. Considering that you describe your DH's looks as truly extraordinarliy unusual (and not in a good way), you're in territory most of us here will not have experienced personally. We can raise questions for you to consider but can't fully engage in a "been there, done that" way, based on what you're describing. Which is why professional help is important.[/quote]

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