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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s rude and petty of them to gossip. I’m sorry they are that rude.

Are you sure they hate you, though?

There are women I don’t know well that I know I dislike. MLM recruiters, MAGA types, #boymom types who don’t keep their kids from hitting others or saying horrible things and laugh it off. Wine Culture Moms. But that said, I just avoid them. I don’t gossip. But yeah, it’s possible to know you dislike someone without knowing them well.[/quote]

MAGA people I’ll give you, but I think you are being unnecessarily harsh on the others. I have friends in all of those categories even though I don’t like that aspect of their personalities. They aren’t my best friends but they are people I like and can talk to, and I just overlook and draw hard boundaries with the stuff I don’t like.

There are also people who I know are into stuff I dislike (like MLMs or wine mom culture) and I’m not friends with them but I also don’t dislike them. I am just neutral in them with no strong feelings. I would never say “oh Larla, I can’t stand her” just because she has an MLM. Who cares? Unless she’s done something directly to me, her interests and behavior don’t impact me.

But at least you aren’t talking poorly about them behind their backs, which is worse. [/quote]

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