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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.

Yes, the two women are close friends with each other. So not two separate, random people who dislike me.

The way I found out is that a (male) friend of mine was inviting me to a thing he and his wife were hosting, and said “don’t worry, [the two women] won’t be there.” I was confused and asked why that mattered, having no real opinion on them either way, and he said “oh, I just heard from [his wife] that you guys don’t get along.” Which was news to me and further confusing because we’ve barely interacted.

I then asked his wife about it and she confirmed they don’t like me, said she thought I knew and that the women are vocal about it, and also said she assumed “something” had happened to cause a falling out. She said she was on my “side” but I don’t even want there to be sides!

I see what the PP is saying about friend groups but I mean, I didn’t set out to have friend group like this. I just made friends through school and work and hung out with my friends and as we got older, more people got incorporated into the network and now I guess it’s a loose friend group.

Now it feels like a combustible situation because while I don’t care about these two women, I do worry about this impacting my friendships with others and my belonging in the group, if they are talking about it enough that people feel like they need to be on a side or be careful about inviting us all to the same stuff.

Ugh, I know this all sounds like lame friend drama and I hate it. I don’t want stuff like this in my life.[/quote]

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