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[quote=Anonymous]Many many years ago I gave birth to a healthy baby girl. I gave her up for adoption. Fast forward 20+ years: I married and have a family now. About 7 years ago, when i was newly married, my birth-child tried to contact me (through the adoption lawyer). At that time I was not in a place to think about THAT and I refused, but told the lawyer to tell the birth-child that everything is fine, we're a healthy family, I was just newly wed and not ready to have contact with her at that time. Now I see she is on FB (i know her name). Should I send a FB msg saying I am ready/willing to talk/answer questions now- or when she is ready? Or is that too weird? She's in her late 20s now. PS the adoption attorney has since passed away and the office is closed.[/quote]
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