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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like your husband feels attacked and rejected, which may be why he bolts when you get upset. When you think about what prevented you from having the life you wanted, what are you the most angry at? Where does your hurt place blame for this situation? Does your husband share your feelings about the problem? Does he grieve for the life you are grieving for? The envy and resentment is very clear in your post. I am not saying those feelings are invalid, but I think it's possible that your husband feels they are directed at him and that's why he doesn't want to listen to you. It also sounds to me your grief is also fueled by comparing your life to the lives of others. Stop comparing yourself to your friends, and/or get some friends who are in the same stage and position of life as you if you are finding your life radically different from these friends you compare yourself negatively to. [/quote]
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