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[quote=Anonymous]Friend is a SAHM, has never really worked, has 2 kids both in elementary school and in camp all summer. Money is not a problem for her, she is always dressed to the nines, regular at the gym, shops a lot, etc. I make no secret of coveting her set up, as I am a working mom not by choice (though I love my career) and even with 2 incomes money is tight.

Her first affair I really tried to not judge. She was certain he was The One. The one she was really supposed to be with, etc. She said there were "signs" everywhere. Talked about leaving her husband for this guy. But then several months ago she got back in touch with another old flame, and began a sexual and emotional relationship with him too. Now he is The One. But she's still in contact with Affair No. 1 and wonders when she will see him again, when he will call her again.

I don't get it. And now I'm just annoyed to the point I don't want anything to do wtih her anymore, but I'm her confidant. I don't want to be her confidant. She told me her little boy started to cry and ask why she was so short with them all the time and why she was always away. I hate her for doing this to them, and while I know you never really KNOW someone else's marriage, her husband is by all accounts a good, hardworking guy who is a good father and a good husband. And she could not care less about him. No guilt whatsoever, just keeps insisting she "can't live her life for someone else" and "he'll be ok."

What do I do? [/quote]

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