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[quote=Anonymous]OP here- thanks.  I don’t want to call her out.  She’s an adult and it’s not my role to police her.  Also I’m certain it’s not that she thinks it’s okay, she knows it’s wrong so my pointing that out will only make her defensive and attack.  I could sever the relationship and tell her why but I am afraid she’s not above making things up to harm me or my reputation.  Yes, I know truth prevails, etc but I’d rather avoid a bunch of lies out there in our community and friend circle.  That’s why I feel stuck.  DH even said ‘yeah I’d be afraid of her.’   She’s told me more than one story of going out of her way to get revenge on someone she thinks wronged her (like a co-worker). It’s nothing physically harmful or illegal but she’s definitely made their lives unpleasant.   I resonate a lot with the comment above about the company you keep reflecting who you are and that’s another reason id like to end it.  I don’t think other people know nearly the amount of detail I do but I’m sure they sense some shadiness.  As for what I like, she is in many ways a kind and generous friend to me and we have fun when we’re together.  We have a lot in common in other ways which is how we became friends. [/quote]

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