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[quote=Anonymous]I have a close friend who has always had a different way of navigating the world than I do.  I’m pretty strait laced and my friend is more willing to flex the rules to benefit herself.  Fine.  I’ve always just thought I’m not going to participate in the stuff that’s a little gray area but she’s an adult so it’s not my role to stop her.  Over the past year or so she’s told me about a few things that seem like outright fraud (think claiming something on insurance even though it wasn’t destroyed).  She’s also been telling me  about lying to or tricking other people in order to benefit herself.  Im really wanting to distance myself but we’re very close friends and I don’t know how to slowly fade.  In the past when I’ve dropped off a bit she gets aggressive in terms of the calls/texts so it’s not a situation where I can just slowly move on.  I know I ignored some yellow flags in the beginning so please don’t tell me im an idiot for being friends with this person.  She is in many ways good to be around and I didn’t really know the full extent until recently.  Im sure some people would also be fine with the amount of lying she does, im just realizing it’s not for me.  [/quote]

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