Reply to s/o Stop responding to threads asking for "success stories" with stories of m/c, failure, etc!

Forum Index » Infertility Support and Discussion

Reply to "s/o Stop responding to threads asking for "success stories" with stories of m/c, failure, etc!"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]I see this time and time again on this forum and it drives me crazy.  A poster will explicitly ask for [u][b]success stories[/b][/u], clearly as a means to cheer themselves up and/or build some hope.  Some people will respond with success stories but others - and I don't get this at all - will respond with a story of their miscarraige, or how their cycle failed, or how they have given up on TTC and are pursuing adoption.  These are real examples of threads I read and it drives me crazy.  There's a thread now where the OP asks for success stories of FET with 6d blasts, and sure enough, someone had to wiegh in with how her FET failed - twice.

Please, if you don't have a success story to share, don't respond to the thread.  Don't hijack the thread as a means to share your own bad experience.  How would you feel if it was you?  Many of us on this forum are going through ART, have suffered repeated disappointments, losses, etc.  We don't need reminders that bad things happen.  So please, when you see a post asking for stories from women who've achieved successful pregnancy, don't wiegh in with how your cycle failed, or you got pregnant but then miscarried.  It's so selfish.

Off my soap box now. Have a great evening.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics