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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Will it pay enough that you can afford extra childcare?[/quote] Possibly - but I am concerned about finding it. My best guess is it would be about a 25k pay increase for him, but I really just don't know. What we would really need is someone to pick our kids up at school around 4 and be with them until around 6. We would not have the budget for a full-time nanny. [/quote] How are you the breadwinner by 60k but a job that's you guess would make "about the same as I do" is only a 25k bump? It sounds like you're preemptively devaluing the positives of this job (money, title, growth potential, his mental health) because you're fixated on how it might inconvenience you. Not a great look. Wait until the offer is made and encourage him to negotiate ($$ and in person requirement) at that point. Don't just sit around stewing about how you might have to step up in another area if he gets a better job.[/quote]
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