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[quote=Anonymous]OP, how unhappy is your DD at her mom’s house and how much does she want out? Why is she unhappy? Your words about RV and homeschooling do have me concerned (I am a child of somewhat off the grid parents and I hated that life, I do think it’s a form of abuse or at least kids need a way out if they prefer). However if it’s something trivial like mom is more strict or has a smaller house… it’s important not to undermine the mom. About getting physical - nowadays kids are super protective of their bodies (not saying it’s a bad thing) and even a slight push or drag can be perceived as “abuse”. Kudos to the therapist who didn’t run immediately to report it if it wasn’t actually abuse. Overall: tread lightly. Don’t be someone who depraved your ex of a good life and now are stealing her child, too. But also don’t be like my dad who didn’t think it was a bad environment for us when growing up and never thought of leaving. Good luck![/quote]
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