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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] You’re idealizing other people’s lives based on social media family vacation posts or wealth signifiers like luxury cars or homes. Did you want to be married with children by now? What is it exactly that you feel should have taken place at this time in your life? Comparison is the thief of joy. Try to change what you can and practice gratitude. [/quote] I wanted to be married happily with 2 kids by now and in a nice home. I am mid-thirties with a marriage to a man child with no children as he doesn’t make enough money to support a family or ever have a down payment for a house. I am so depressed. [/quote] Okay, so action steps. Ask yourself some difficult questions, what have you done to improve your earning power? I know you see SAHMs that look like they are living on easy street, but that is not the average woman. You don’t want to have children with a man-child, anyway- all your problems will be exponentially worse. Address your depression, work on career goals, consider divorce. I know it is difficult to quit the blame game, but it is necessary to move forward.[/quote] This, OP. [/quote]
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