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[quote=Anonymous]Dating someone for the last 3-4 months and everything is just…less. Less time, less communication, less passion, less future planning. We had a very fiery start and he did most of the pursuing but I was also very receptive; we seemed to get along really well as friends so it felt like a good early relationship, until he just pulled back. I’ve brought it up once and got reassurance that everything is perfectly fine, so I thought ok, I’ll just ride out this blip. Except now it’s been a month of this and the trend is definitely there. If I put in more effort, it actually gets worse. I do get occasional enthusiasm here and there but it just feels like the opposite of progression or even maintenance of time and energy invested. If we do make plans etc he never flakes out but there is just no initiative. I’m not really interested in having repeated talks or seeking closure because I think he will just say everything is fine, but at what point do I just firmly conclude this isn’t going anywhere? I guess I’m probably there already but haven’t had this slow fade experience before. Anyone have advice? [/quote]

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