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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I tried for about a month, but it wasn’t a friendship in any normal sense.  I still got overly excited to see messages from him.  I was still spewing out every little thing in my heart to him.  He insisted on using telegram and being secretive instead of texting like we were normal friends (his wife didn’t even know I exist).  It was still romantic, I still felt like I was falling for him and having feelings.

It would have progressed quickly back into an emotional affair, and eventually gotten physical.  Everything about the relationship was wrong and even though I like him as a person and we’re both fairly lonely, I couldn’t turn the dial back and remove the romantic/sexual component even though I wanted to.  He was so funny and smart!  I really liked talking to him.

I ended the emotional affair and then I ended the friendship right as we were about to see each other again in person.  Part of me thinks I should have met with him again- I wasn’t that physically attracted to him and maybe that would have snapped me out of it.  But [b]the way he looked at me… that could get addictive[/b].[/quote]

NP. The way she looked at me was addictive. I couldn't look away. Wouldn't stop me being friendly however.[/quote]

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