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[quote=Anonymous]My husband uses the "joking" excuse for most of the things I consider insults. Two examples: While I talking to a neighbor about our gardens, he pops over and interrupts me (twice). The second time I ask him to please don't interrupt. He says he was just making my point more interesting as I was boring. I left. He tells me later he was just joking. Today, as I'm leaving for work, he tells me I would be able to actually get raise if would show a lot more cleavage. I tell him I just got a raise a month ago with my brains. He says the raise would have been bigger if I was more "out there". I tell him that was hurtful. He says he was just joking. He was actually "implying a compliment". Then he tries to tell me I'm too sensitive. Is this gaslighting? [/quote]
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