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[quote=Anonymous]This is your friend's decision and only her decision, so be careful to only weigh in if she invites you to do so. But I'm raising a happy, well-adjusted kid solo after using donor sperm. She doesn't know any different. Our family is just our family to her. There is no sense of loss. She has been aware she was donor conceived from birth. We talk about how there are a lot of different kinds of families - some with two moms, some with a mom and a dad, some with a mom and kid, etc. She has a lot of people in her life that love her including grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins, and close family friends (male and female). I also consider our babysitters, nannies, coaches, and teachers over the years to be part of our extended village and value the role they have had in her life. The only challenge has been being the only income earner in the family. I make a good income, but I did slow my work travel during the daycare and preschool years when there is a lot of sickness. I'd also like to add that it is perfectly valid to become a single parent by choice without a huge six figure income and without a grandparent who can help co-parent or move in. Any woman with reasonable financial stability can raise a child solo. [/quote]
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