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[quote=Anonymous]Last night I had a weird text conversation and it has me feeling freaked out. My boyfriend is on a no contact order. He assaulted me 3 weeks ago. He is an alcoholic. I am in counseling, but I'm having a hard time dealing with everything. Throughout the relationship he would go from sweet to mean and verbally abusive. The physical abuse was not as frequent.

There was a text that came up on his phone a few months back. He was passed out drunk. The person wrote "Did you end up going out last night? And then sent a separate text with a kiss face emoji. I asked him who that was. He said "I don't know, this used to be someone else's number so it's probably someone trying to text the person who used to have this number." I didn't really believe him.

I wanted to ask this person who they were for a while. Last night I text them and said "How do you know Jake?"
They wrote "Idk who you are"
I said "I'm his girlfriend"
Them: No, I'm his girlfriend.
Me: Funny (at this point I thought it might be one of his guy friends)
They said: You asked
Me: Is this (name of one of his friends)?
Them: Night
I then sent a text of their texts they sent and said "You sent these and I just wanted to know how you know him. You're not his girlfriend but nice try."
They said: Neither are you
Me: Oh?
Them: You coo coo cachoo girlfriend!
Me: Oh really? Maybe because he hit me in the head. I don't know who you are but I just wanted to know how you knew him because you sent those texts. And if you do know him, that's really low of you to say. You don't know me or the situation or what has happened. Maybe this is just a wrong number and a mistake. I apologize.

My question is, based on this conversation, do you think it sounds like they actually know him? I tried to find out who this number belongs to and it comes back to someone who I know he doesn't know and it says they're like 60 years old. 
I know you will say that I shouldn't be wasting my time with this, but I could never believe half the things he said. And I finally just wanted to see who this person was. Please don't be too harsh. I'm going through a very difficult time with all of this. He's got two pending charges. I wrote here before that I feel guilt for going to the police.[/quote]

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