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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry OP. I do think there's an element of luck when we marry young . . . we just assume our partner will keep maturing, as will we. But it doesn't happen by accident; we have to make it happen, and not everyone has the desire or the understanding to do so.

You have choices. You're not stuck with this man forever, especially since you don't have children yet. It's easy for me to say because it's not my life, but if I were you, I would leave him and start over. You can always have a child on your own if you don't find a worthy partner within your time frame. I just don't see the upshot of staying in a situation like this.

You say you envy healthy relationships . . . those involve boundaries, and walking away if we aren't treated right. Apply those to your marriage now, and you'll find that things will naturally end, or (less likely) he will rise to the occasion and start working on himself. Having a healthy relationship always starts with you and your willingness to walk away if you aren't treated right.

Good luck.[/quote]

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