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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would not be able to bounce back from that. Six months is not a small error in judgment. It's huge.

Please give yourself grace. You deserve better.[/quote]
  I know I do.  I love him though and want to try to get to the other side of this. I believe he is a good person that made a horrendous decision and that he wants to work on being a better husband, father and human.  I feel like my view of marriage and its vows mean that we have to at least try and that we don’t just throw everything away.  I get that he did risk everything and that definitely hurts. My self esteem is very low right now . [/quote]

Your love for him is not enough, nor does he deserve it.  It's time to love yourself more. Your marriage has been dead, you knew the illusion of marriage that he presented, but it wasn't the reality. The marriage you want to save hasn't been there for at least a year, maybe ever.

You aren't throwing it away, but it is gone. You can't save what isn't there. [/quote]

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