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[quote=Anonymous]Does your spouse ask you to massage their hands? Or are you doing it because you think it is something they want you to do? If so, look at how many "yous" are in that sentence. There is difference between having needs and being needy. It does suck to not be able to take care of yourself, but you do need to accept your temporary limitations. How many times are you trying to get in and out of your bed? My mother had half a dozen times of limited mobility, rather than just sit on the couch to watch TV, read, or hang out, she expected someone to be there to let her up every time she wanted to get up. No consideration for the other person. Not exaggerating to say 40 times a day including a half dozen times throughout the night. Then she complained that we didn't want to help her, her loss of freedom...and just spiraled from there.[/quote]
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