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[quote=Anonymous]My older sister has a life-long history of cutting people off without any explanation.  It goes on for years. She's done this to family AND friends, often rotating. She'd talk to me for years, but cut off our brother. Now she is talking to our brother but cut me off.  I decided this time is the last time and I refuse to have any kind of relationship with her again.  My DH supports my decision as he has seen for himself how she interferes in relationships and crosses boundaries.

OP, here is a clue to what you are doing wrong: "I was on the phone with my brother-in-law this weekend for over an hour talking about all of this."

You need to respect the fact that your sister does not want a relationship with you and STOP contacting her husband. Why are you doing that?

There are no nieces/nephews/cousins involved in this so there is no family connection which could be maintained for childrens' sake.

I do not miss the neverending toxic dance with my sister, but I do mourn that I never had the kind of relationship with her that could have been.

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