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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When dating I constantly run across men who cannot be self reflective. If there’s a problem
It’s always 100% the other persons fault. It’s so frustrating? Do they think they are perfect? Just have no interest in growing and becoming a better person?[/quote]

I mean, you're the common denominator in this scenario. It's something about what YOU'RE attracted to.

The irony of your premise that this is some kind of universal male trait is hilarious, though. It's 100% the man's fault. You lack introspection about why you keep attracting men like this.[/quote]

It's not universal. Some men aren't like this, and most men who have actually been to therapy aren't. [/quote]

Except OP is blaming "men" instead of being introspective and asking the better question of what is about HER that attracts her to the very few men who are this way?

Therapy is a bunch of hooey bullshit, BTW. [/quote]
dp.. what OP is describing is pretty common.

They did a study which looked at how men and women deal with personal reflection at work.

If a job was well done, the man usually attributed it to his own efforts, whereas a woman would say it was really a team effort

If a job was not well done, the man usually blames others than himself, whereas a woman usually will shoulder some blame.
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