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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's a ploy to play on your emotions to suck you in and get you hooked to him so you can give him what he wants:  A huge ego boost because he thinks he's so clever and irresistible that you can't stay away and are devastatingly lost without him.

The best response is either straight up block and delete, or say you are busy (or "Meh, not interested") and block and delete.  The point is that this guy has No Control over you in any fashion.  His love bomb completely misses the mark with you.  Disengage completely and he'll move on to the next target.  [/quote]

Thank you. This was helpful. I wish I was the type who could just block and delete.[/quote]

OP, I wrote the above from experience. I had earlier opportunities to block and delete but always wanted to give a second and third chance to "see what happens."   Well, what happened was he took my willingness to have my boundaries trampled on as consent for him to push things more and more, until finally I had no choice but to cut him off because I became like a total clown.  Do you want to be a clown?  Of course not.  By blocking and deleting you are not being mean. You are being kind to yourself, and maybe showing that guy he can't just trample all over everyone and get away with it with no consequences.  [/quote]

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