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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lesbian here. Since we're all anonymous I'll admit that I would prefer to not date someone who was in a long-term marriage to a man (if I'm just using online dating or know little about you/don't have a prior friendship). I think I'd feel kind of insecure about you deciding you want to go back to men. And YES to the closeted stuff. Regardless of whether you're bisexual or not, you have been presenting as straight. Your family, community, coworkers, neighbors, and, MAINLY, children see you as straight, so there will be a lot of adjustments your loved ones will need to make and I just don't want to be a part of that. I see you've dated a woman before and that's in your favor, because I also don't want to be anyone's first experience with a woman. [/quote]

This. First relationships with women can be intense. SO many new feelings - euphoria, confusion, shame, excitement, fear, intense passion...it is like being a teenager in your 30s/40s/50s.

And the being OUT OUT is big for me. I have been out for nearly 30y and I don't want to be anyone's secret. [/quote]

If we’re keeping it real, you really think it’s just first relationships w/a woman that are intense?? IME, it’s ALL relationships w/women. She’s already said she doesn’t plan to keep anyone a secret.

OP — as a warning, some lifelong, gold star lesbians will be the most judgmental of you. [/quote]

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