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[quote=Anonymous]I think for now, the best thing you can do is to look at yourself and your own contributions to this dynamic. My mom would describe my childhood the same way and she wouldn't be wrong. Except she was emotionally abusive. It wasn't the obvious emotional abuse yet it was manipulation, guilt tripping, controlling. I know I wasn't perfect and contributed to part of the reason she acted the way she did. I got a lot of therapy to help me deal with my issues. I would recommend therapy for yourself. My mom started going about 3 years ago (not because of me, but because of my dad's death) and things between us are a lot better. Not great, but I can spend extended times with her without her blowing up at me. [/quote]
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