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[quote=Anonymous]My husband found out a family member (Joe) (not super close) has a rare illness. The family member was the one to tell him at a family event. I have a family member (Pete) (not close) that also has a similar illness (may or may not be the same). 
DH asked me if Pete would be willing to talk to Joe about what he has been through. My husband told Joe about Pete, but Joe did not ask to connect. I said I'm sure Pete would be willing to talk to him if he has questions.
So now DH wants me to call Pete and ask if he would be ok to talk with Joe. I told him that why ask anyone if Joe isn't uninterested.
My husband being a defensive child got upset that I wasn't jumping on board with trying to connect these 2 strangers.
Yes - my husband can be a jerk and he is always doing odd things like this and pulling me into the middle and wanting me to execute his ideas. We are in therapy...but in the meantime, how can I get him off my back. And the therapst wont diagnose so what do you call someone who acts this way?[/quote]

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