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[quote=Anonymous]Here’s the scenario: 53yo DH had been sexually involved for 4-5 months with a 29yo AP who still lives with her parents (they are ages 57 - same as me - and 58). DH and AP met at the neighborhood gathering spot where they had been hanging out since the pandemic alleviated a bit; the relationship turned sexual after about 12-18 months. I’m an introvert and go to bed on the early side as I’m the one up early with kids’ morning practices etc; I never had an issue with DH going out after kids were in bed. AP lives at home after failing to cope successfully with emotional issues following college and grad school. They would sneak into her childhood home after hooking up at the bar, or after evenings where they met elsewhere for drinks/dinner. Apart from disgust at the man having sex with my daughter while knowing all her issues, would you want to know about (married) men your own age coming into your house late at night for the purposes of sexual encounters? I wouldn’t actually contact her mother in real life, but I toy with the thought while washing dishes, pulling weeds and considering the altered reality of my world. (I found out about the 29yo AP at the same time I learned there were two others going back 7 years.) I’m not angry at AP or any of the APs. I’m angry at my wayward husband. However, as the parent of at least one teen with emotional challenges who I will worry about all my life, I’d probably want to know what was going on with her, even though it probably fits a pattern and would not surprise me. Would you?[/quote]

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