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[quote=Anonymous]That's the problem. It's illegal to log in as someone else. You absolutely need financial POA and your own log in with access to the accounts. I know this from caring for my elderly aunt until her death. No one has any idea how old the wife is. The father in law is 83. We have no idea what his assets are like. They have a house in Silver Spring that's likely worth $700k or so. Hard to imagine that it's not paid off since they bought in in the mid 90's, but who can say? We don't know how the house is titled. From the short visit a few weeks ago, there are "multiple" credit cards, but no one knows what's on them. He's apparently got late fees because he can't keep track and his wife is angry and overwhelmed at his decline. Frankly, it doesn't seem she wants to deal with it, but she also won't accept help. Maddening.[/quote]
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