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[quote=Anonymous]I agree! My husband went to the house, took FIL to lunch, was pleasant and helpful. The wife will not produce the papers for him nor tell him where they are. He asked his father if he wanted for him to help out with the finances. FIL said, "yes." At this point, the only tactic I can come up with is to make an appointment with an attorney, drive his father over to him, and remake the papers at our expense. It is a question if the lawyer will deem FIL capable or not at this point. He's pleasant enough but gets confused easily. He doesn't know what accounts he has or where they are. My husband does not like to make waves and is kind of spineless. He reverts to "I just don't know if I care enough." It's not my family so maybe I need to let it go. The only complication is that I am the only source of financial support for my family. I am not willing to help FIL financially if my husband will not address these issues. [/quote]
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