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[quote=Anonymous]It's just an escape from reality, OP. Think of him farting in bed or how his smelly socks make you ill when he leaves them in the middle of the bathroom floor. Men are men, and when that glow wears off, they stink and snore and pick their noses, just like the rest of humanity. It's not all perfection that's fuzzy wuzzy and beautiful or hot and passionate -- things that sound missing from your marriage.

Get another job, OP, and stop yourself from thinking about this man. You'll ruin your children's lives, for what? Some transient passion that won't last, as PPs have said.

If you are not already in counseling, get thee to a counselor pronto. And tell the counselor about this man, in front of your DH. It's normal to fantasize about the "perfect" man when you are in a bad place with your DH, but pull your head out of the sand, OP! That "perfect" man does not exist!! He's a figment of your imagination. This guy you are fantasizing about all the time, he may appear to be real to you, but he's something you created in your own mind. Once you realize that, you will be able to let go of this crush and get back to fixing your real life. [/quote]

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