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[quote=Anonymous]OP how do you resolve it when you have disagreements about other spending? Like what if this was about buying one car vs the other? The only way to do this right imo is to slog through setting goals, creating a budget, etc. if you give this $4k, you both need to be clear about how it changes your budget and medium/long term plans. If you really, truly can’t agree on it, can this come out of his personal discretionary budget? It’s much better to just have a financial planning system with a process for dealing with this than to argue about what his mother deserves or doesn’t deserve or should or shouldn’t do. Definitely don’t get into any kind of loan situation or making a gift contingent on some sort of lifestyle adjustment. [/quote]
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