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[quote=Anonymous]Agree w/ the limits of your options if your dad is intact cognitively and doesn't want help. Then you're kind of stuck. Otherwise, use the discharge folks at the facility where he's staying. They can only discharge a patient into a safe setting - so you can talk candidly/directly w/ them about the limits of your mother's capabilities. Don't sugar coat it - be very clear about what she will be unable to reliably provide. Things around immediate physical safety and medication management are especially relevant. You're in a tough spot, I'm sorry. I couldn't get my parents to do what I thought was best and it's hard. In the end I took some small comfort in knowing that I did my best, knowing that I can't force another adult(s) to do anything, and that at least they were able to manage their end of life on their own terms. It's small comfort, but some nonetheless. Good luck OP.[/quote]
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