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[quote=Anonymous]You are fixated on very small stuff — when really, your mom has likely been a jerk a lot. You just really, really wanted her not to be a jerk around your wedding — so it stung more when she was just her typical jerky self. Honestly, my dad is a jerk. He will never, ever acknowledge he is a jerk. He isn’t going to have some big kumbaya moment with me where he apologizes. Honestly, he just gets less of my time. He has also mellowed and is a lot less jerky (I would never allow him to be a jerk to my kids). But it doesn’t matter, he will never get a close relationship from me. I see him, but we are not close. And honestly, it is fine. He is who he is. And I’m a grownup and can make my own choices.[/quote]
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