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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't want to invalidate your hurt but to be honest, some of these issues seem slightly petty to be so upset about years later. SO I agree with the person above, what about them is so hurtful/why are these so central in your thinking now? One suggestion: write a letter to your mother about all the hurt but don't send it.[/quote] Quoting myself here-- could it be that you have often felt marginalized by your mother, especially during your wedding when your expectation was full attention from her and her centering you, and now that she is doing exactly that with your sibling, it's 1) showing you she isn't always like that 2) the gap between how she generally treats your siblings and you is hurting?[/quote]
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