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[quote=Anonymous]I think it is totally reasonable for him to visit his mom Saturday particularly if he is taking your child with for the day. Saturday isn’t Mother’s Day…you don’t get the entire weekend. LOL. The cleaning really can’t wait until next week? And you seriously clean all day on Saturdays?! That is crazy. On Saturday, I’d do a few necessary tasks for the week and then take the day to yourself.

On Sunday, tell DH exactly what you would like, and spend the day your way.

The bigger issue here is that your DH has made plans the last three weekends, leaving the cleaning all on you, which was not your agreement and is NOT fair and you are right to be resentful about it.  Focus on that problem (which is totally legit) and don’t drag Mothers Day into it. Ideally DH should handle the “Saturday cleaning”  a few times to make it up to you. After that, work out a reasonable schedule.

Honestly it sounds like you guys spend way too much time cleaning if it is just the two of you and one child. You really shouldn’t have to set aside entire Saturdays to clean, in the first place. [/quote]

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