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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband asked what I wanted for mothers day. I asked to: not have to clean, cook, and to spend time at home with family with a homecooked meal for dinner and go out for breakfast on Sunday for one weekend.

We have busy workweek schedules and always designate Saturday to be the "cleaning day", where for the past 3 weeks I have been doing it because my husband has gone out doing things he likes to do: fishing. Well, cleaning day is coming up. My FIL called my husband no short of 4x asking him to come visit him 2+ hours away for mothers day. My husband said no, FIL changed the date to Saturday. My husband said no, again, because he needed to be home to run errands and clean, pick up groceries, etc on Saturday. My FIL called my husband again TODAY and said that now my husbands grandmother will be travelling 2+ hours on Mothers Day and that it "might be her last mothers day" and asked my husband again, to go. My husbands grandmother is not dying, by the way. She is in good health, just in her 90's and every holiday my inlaws insist on spending it with them because it might be "grandmas last year ..."

So now, my husband gets off work at 6PM tomorrow. Cleaning the house is a big project that usually takes two people. He told me he's going to do it when he gets off work, but chances are he will just say he will do it Sunday morning or something right when I'd like to be getting ready to go out for breakfast. He is planning on being gone all day Saturday with our son, travelling to FIL, leaving at 8AM and coming back at 6PM. So I'll be alone, not spending time with my own family. My husband said I'll "get a day to myself", but that's not what I asked for. I didn't ask to be alone. I asked to just be free of household responsibilities and spend time with my family.[/quote]

Accommodate. [/quote]

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