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[quote=Anonymous]I have an estranged sister. I’m translating this into my phone so please excuse The grammar errors. I take pride in being close to family, however I have one sister with a high conflict personality disorder who is a toxic person. She’s a bully and she sees me as below her and only respected me if I stayed in my place as her servant. Finally I lost it with her for years ago and blew up at her and even grabbed her shoulders and shake them since I couldn’t yell because everybody was sleeping. We don’t live together but we are on a family vacation. Our parents back to me and made her leave. This infuriated her even more. While I believe I was wrong to shake her and should never of done that, I got away with it because everyone knew how rare it is that I get mad and how mean she’s been to me. Her reason is that because of learning disabilities I’m a little bit odd and slow. Socially speaking I sometimes come across as a little different and therefore I don’t have much and we are friends. She was 26 and I was 37 at the time of the fight so we’re not kids.

She has devoted the last four years to proving that I’m a bad guy and it’s just made her look worse and worse. Time and time again our Dad backs me. Our mom is her enabler so she enables both of us by making excuses for her and excuses for me when talking to the other. I try to keep our mom out of it though currently she seems to understand that I’m the victim. I’m debating whether to go to a party this Sunday that my sister is going to be out since there won’t be much family there I won’t be missing much.

So though we see each other physically through family events we are estranged. Sometimes I feel bad because the people tell me that me blowing up at her was perfectly understandable I believe it was wrong that I shook her. At other times I am glad that we are estranged because it means I don’t have to deal with her anymore.

So are you estranged from a sibling or parent? How do you handle it? How do you handle family events when estranged?  [/quote]

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