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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel gross.

I’m a 42 y/o divorced dad and live in a leafy UMC neighborhood. I WFH full time. For the past few weeks/months I’ve seen someone who looked to be a woman in her 30s speed walking and occasionally running in my neighborhood. She is about 5”3 and wears dark sunglasses, baseball cap, shorts, running sneakers & a tank top. Has long brown hair & is in amazing shape from what I could tell based on looking at her.

Anyway, I was out walking today and saw her. I must’ve startled her by walking far behind her on the same sidewalk. She looked behind, and that’s when I finally decided I would make a move. She looked a little startled, but I introduced myself and we both kept walking together. She quickly started chatting with me, and I complimented her on her walking/running. We were talking about how nice it was out & how hilly the neighborhood is. She spoke like a grown adult & seemed very confident. Anyway, as I was about to make a turn on my route after a few blocks, I asked her if she’d like to meet again and if there was any way I could contact her. She kindly but swiftly shut that down; she said “That is nice of you, but I am going back to college for the summer next week. Good luck with your walking” :shock: I said thank you and made a turn.

This girl was probably 19 years old & taking walks from her parents house.[b] I feel like a creep.[/b] [/quote]

That's because you are a creep.[/quote]

DP. By your standard, there is literally no circumstance in which it’s okay to approach someone & ask them out on a date/walk. [/quote]

Yes. If the approacher is a man. If it's a woman, then it's "you go girl".

You'll notice that in the threads where women ask where to meet men. People will offer up places like work, the gym, etc. But definitely not OK for a man to do that.[/quote]

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