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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks for sharing your story and updates, OP.

Out of curiosity, how did you find out about his communications with his h.s. gf? Did he disclose that on his own?[/quote]

Since dday his phone lives out on the kitchen counter unlocked so the message just popped up on his home screen while I was cooking. Honestly, if he would have said "Hey, so and so from high school has been through this and they're really happy. I feel it would help me to talk to someone who's been through it- do you care if I reach out?" or even just "letting you know I'm going to reach out". Again, it was a potential conflict avoidance. Realistically I know that this is not going to be linear and from day 1 my individual therapist has said that lots of therapist liken infidelity to addiction and there can be "relapses" along the way but at the same time I'm like come on buddy we've spent MONTHS ripping our souls apart around this stuff- you really thought this was an appropriate outlet?
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