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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, thanks for your update. I truly wish you the best.

Also, and please understand I am not criticizing you here - you are allowed to feel however you want to feel about all of this - I read the part about him contacting his high school girlfriend as actually kind of sweet because of what he was seeking from her. I guess being 44 the thought of a high school girlfriend/boyfriend means nothing to me now and perhaps it's different for you because you're younger and also because you live in a smaller town and also perhaps because this was the girlfriend right before you? But anyway, while he should have said something to you before discussing your issues with his high school girlfriend, I guess I would urge you to try to let that go for the sake of trying to move on from all of this. I totally understand how a sliver after losing a limb can still hurt, but perhaps screaming about this into the sky and then leaving it behind you so you an focus on the more important things would be best.

Hugs. [/quote]

DP but I would be as furious as OP, maybe for a different reason.  I truly cannot imagine staying with someone who cheated on me and if I did I'm 100% certain that one condition of our "rebuilding" would be that no one can know that it happened.  He can't go around bragging about his growth or whatever to our family, friends, old high school buddies.  It's a terrible betrayal to have your spouse cheat.  But it's absolutely humiliating to have him tell other people about how he cheated but you're going to stick with him anyway, even if he was telling this other woman for a "sweet" reason (which I have my reservations about).[/quote]

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