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[quote=Anonymous]How do you continue to be supportive and not resentful of your spouses work hours? My DH has been in law for the entire time that I have known him. I obviously knew what the gig was before we got married and agreed to it.  But over the years I feel like I have become more resentful of how many hours he works and the stress that comes with the job.  He has moved up from staff attorney to counsel to partner in the past 12 years and the work hasn't lessened although the comp has gone up.

We have young children (under the age of 8) and I do the majority of the work. I also work fulltime in a flexible 40 hour a week job.  I do all of the pick ups and drop offs, sports practices, doctors appointments, school related things.  When he has downtime he helps where he can around the house, with the kids, church stuff, etc but when he is busy I know it will inevitably be a 6am-10pm sort of day for him and I will need to take care of everything else.

For those of you have raised kids and been there/done that with spouses in big law how did you handle it?  Did you just get used to it over the years?  I want to be less resentful and I know that he is doing this to provide a comfortable life for ourselves and our kids but it just gets to be a lot day in and day out. [/quote]

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