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[quote=Anonymous]No. MIL has said some really awful things to DH and I throughout the past decades. We have asked nothing of her. People don't just forget what was said to them. She does not like that I am different than her, and takes it as a personal affront. Because it is all about her. Not my problem. She is supposed to be the voice of experience, warmth, kindness and wisdom, not a petulant, bitter child. I am civil and pleasant, and try to encourage DH to see her more often, but her really doesn't want to. Nor does he care to call her, which I also try to encourage. I think he has come to see how normal, warm families act, and while no one's family is perfect, civil and pleasant is a reasonable baseline. [/quote]
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